When a relationship becomes toxic, every interaction in the relationship can feel wrong or out of place, brimming with negative energy that makes both partners uncomfortable, angry, and disappointed. When you suspect that you might possibly be in a toxic relationship, it is time to understand it – then fix it or leave.

1 Persistent Disrespect

Your partner actively disrespects you in ways that are absolutely unnecessary, even when no fight is occurring.

2 Endless Drama

No matter how plain and simple your life might be, your partner always magically finds a way to stir up some new drama.

3 Envy and Jealousy

Instead of celebrating you for your personal awards and achievements, they only take away envy and jealousy, wishing they could have it and making you feel bad for it.

4 A Partner of Victimhood

Maybe you and your partner have gone through some rough times and you’re trying to move on, but you can’t, because they keep referring to the past, painting themselves as the victim. The effort to be better is just one-way.

5 Unhappiness

You are just generally unhappy and negative. When they enter the room, your first thought is, “God, what now?”

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6 Nothing You Do Is Right

There is criticism about everything. Every time you do something, they always have a comment about what you did wrong or how you could have done it better. They don’t know how to appreciate you anymore.

7 Little White Lies

Your relationship has become peppered with little white lies, simply because you don’t want to waste time explaining the truth, and also because you just don’t want to tell the truth.

8 Lack of Autonomy

You have lost your identity, and with that, you lost your self-worth. You don’t remember the last time you made a decision that was just up to you. Your entire life is now a “we”.

9 Continuous Self-Betrayal

You have opinions and likes and dislikes, but you find yourself constantly doing something other than what you feel is right, just to please your partner, because you do not want to make them unhappy.

10 Mutual Avoidance

You used to love spending time together, but now you think of any reason to avoid each other. You sigh in relief when your partner has to go out of town for a few days.

Have you experienced any of the signs above?

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