Being social and having a lot of friends is a desirable trait that we all aspire to however some characteristics might keep you away from being socially desired. Bellow are 6 unattractive traits that turn people off.

GOSSIPING

Definitely one of the worst personality traits there is. In all sincerity, gossiping behavior is something that should’ve disappeared the moment you stepped out into the real world on your lonesome.

IRRESPONSIBILITY

Once again, a caveat: none of us are deserving of a responsibility halo beaming from atop our head. We’ve all screwed up on our responsibilities. But is that irresponsibility coming from a lack of effort? If so, there’s no rational excuse.

INATTENTIVENESS/INABILITY TO LISTEN

There’s not paying attention because you’re anxious or tired, and then there’s not paying attention because you don’t give a crap. If you’re a good listener, you certainly understand the frustrations of trying to hold a conversation with someone with the attention span of a fruit fly. (It’s one of the most annoyingly rude things ever.) People who are deserving of your attention should receive it unless they’ve given you a good reason. Another frustrating variation of inattentiveness/inability to listen is interrupting or walking away when someone’s speaking.

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DISORGANIZATION

If you’re a person who (rightfully) takes pride by having your affairs in order, a close relationship with someone incompetent in this area may be difficult. To be reasonable, we’re all a bit disorganized at times – we’ll forget about a bill, run late, or look a bit disheveled once in a while. That’s not what we’re talking about. We’re talking about people whose lives are perpetually disorganized. These are the folks who are always late, never pay their bills, forget to call, never seen an iron, and whose home looks like it was hit by a natural disaster.

CONTROLLING OR JEALOUS BEHAVIOR

Control is jealousy’s close cousin. The two traits are pretty much inseparable, as a matter of fact. Think about it: if a person is jealous, how will they compensate for – what is perceived as – some kind of personal loss? Often times, they’ll try and right the ship by seizing control. Worse yet, the situation can be dangerous if the controlling behaviors become emotionally or physically abusive.

ARROGANCE

It’s common to mistake arrogance for confidence – at least in the beginning. The person may act as if they’ve got everything figured out; usually communicated by acting (unnaturally) confident and never showing insecurity or vulnerability and bragging non-stop. It’s quickly discovered, however, that there’s little substance behind this arrogant mask. Arrogance is unattractive for a number one reasons; one of them being that it can morph into so many other undesirables: cattiness, egotism, self-aggrandizement, and rudeness, among others.

What else you believe is an unattractive personality trait?

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