WHY EMOTIONALLY VULNERABLE PEOPLE ARE SO ATTRACTIVE

Are you attracted to a vulnerable person? Here are some of the most endearing qualities that make them so irresistible.

THEY KNOW HOW TO BE A TEAM PLAYER

People who are comfortable with their vulnerability realize that they can’t do everything on their own. They have evaluated their strengths and weaknesses and aren’t afraid to ask for help. It makes them even more attractive because they value your input and are grateful that you’re there for them.

THEY BRING OUT THE BEST IN YOU

Do you have a problem expressing your emotions, even if it makes you feel vulnerable? Maybe you were raised with the idea that stoicism equals strength and that being emotional equals weakness. It may be attractive to you when you meet someone who isn’t afraid to show their vulnerable side.

THEY OWN THEIR MISTAKES

Nothing is more frustrating than to have a lover who refuses to own up to mistakes and shortcomings. Even worse is when they try to shift the blame to you or someone else. Vulnerable people are in touch with their feelings, and they can admit when they’ve messed up.

THEY FOCUS ON EMOTIONAL AND SPIRITUAL GROWTH

Nobody in their right mind wants to suffer or be hurt. However, it takes both good and bad experiences in life to make us grow emotionally and spiritually. Vulnerable people understand that they are taking risks when forming relationships.

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THEY ARE NATURALLY EMPATHETIC

There’s a big difference between sympathy and empathy. If a friend is going through a difficult time, you can be sympathetic or “feel sorry” for them. However, empathy takes the emotion a step further. If you empathize with your friend’s pain, you feel the raw emotion right along with them.

THEY ARE EXCELLENT COMMUNICATORS

It’s almost impossible to have a satisfying relationship without communication. It’s the way you and your lover express your thoughts, needs, and feelings. Unless you are talking and listening to each other, your bond isn’t going to last.

THEY KNOW THAT TRUST IS IMPORTANT

Do you value trustworthiness in your significant other? According to an article published by Simply Psychology, humans begin learning how to trust as newborns. The report cites Dr. Erik Erikson’s groundbreaking work, who theorized that babies gain trust from their primary caregivers.

THEY ARE GENUINE

In a world filled with “fake” people, it’s attractive to find those who are the real deal. Vulnerable people know that they have flaws and aren’t trying to hide anything. They are people that are comfortable in their skin.
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